Youn.g Couple's First Swing: Part 1/3
Over the past year, we've helped many first-time swinger couples navigate their way into the lifestyle. This time was a bit different; they were newlyweds, and surprisingly, they allowed us to document their experience. We were amazed because typically, first-timers are quite nervous and reluctant to be filmed, but they gave us permission. What made it even more unique was our meeting time – 8:30 in the morning. It was our first time swinging so early! 😅
On the day, we decided to have breakfast together before heading to the room. They drove to McDonald's, but since there was no parking available, we had to get takeout and eat at the hotel. What made it even more peculiar was that we enjoyed McDonald's with a glass of red wine. When I first saw his wife, I could sense her nervousness, and she seemed introverted and reserved. She was really a sweet girl. Later, in our conversation, I learned that her husband was her first boyfriend. I thought to myself, how lucky am I? But it was also a challenge – how to establish a good connection and ensure she enjoyed the swinging experience. So, my first idea was to play a game.
We chatted, shared wine, and talked a lot about how we entered this second world of swinging. We shared our personal journeys and discussed how it enhanced the passion and love between us as a couple. All these discussions helped them understand why they wanted to enter this world and the mindset to bring into it. Haha! It felt like we had turned into teachers. 🤭
When we both felt comfortable, I suggested, "Why don't we start playing a game?" They were very cooperative, and that's how their first swinging experience began!
年轻夫妻第一次交换:1/3部分
在这一年多来,我们也帮助了不少第一次玩的夫妻如何进入交换的状态,这次有一些不一样的,就是他们是新婚夫妻,然后他也允许我们拍摄。这就让我们大感惊讶,因为一般上第一次玩交换老婆都会非常紧张,不愿意被拍,但竟然他们允许我们拍摄。 很特别的,就是我们的相约,竟然是早上8:30。这也是我们第一次这么早开房。😅
当天我们就约了一起吃早餐,然后才到房间。他们就开车在我们去吃麦当劳,但由于没有停车位,我们只好打包回去酒店吃。还有一个很独特的事情,就是我们一边吃麦当劳一边喝红酒,当我第一眼见到对方的时候就能感受到他老婆非常紧张,而且还比较内向话不多,非常文静。真的是一位乖乖女孩,后来跟她聊天才知道她的老公就是他第一任男朋友。我心想我也太幸运了吧,但也是一个挑战,要如何建立好感觉,还要让她很享受这交换的过程。所以我第一个想到的就是玩游戏。
就这样,我们聊聊天,呵呵,红酒分享了很多,关于我们如何进入这个第二世界。分享了很多关于我们的这些心路历程还有如何?让我们夫妻的感情变得更激情与更深爱彼此。这些的分享都有助于让他们了解为什么要进入这个世界也分享了要带着一种怎么样的心态在这第二世界。哈哈哈!感觉我们好像变成了老师。🤭
当我们感觉到对方都觉得比较安心的时候,我就提议,不如我们就开始玩游戏吧!他们也非常的配合,就这样就开始了他们的第一次!